Sunday, December 16, 2012

Story from the Darkness

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I actually hate girls or women who do not respect their own pride in any kind of ways, especially when it goes to them showing how much they love their crush. Like seriously people, there is this girl on my timeline who mentions her crush by calling him "babe, dear, etc", she even uploaded a shot which says that she loves him. I was scrolling down my timeline and I was like "dafuq did I see?" - they are not even in a relationship yet. Thankfully the guy did not do the same thing, otherwise I'd unfollow them right away.
What I would like to say here is that - girls, please do not show that you love someone so much, so much that people started to make an assumption that you are in a relationship. Because when they found out from yourself that you have not, they will automatically think that you are so aggressive and you can't control yourself. Even I personally think that the guy will lose the feeling that he felt before after seeing the wild reaction from this girl. Remember, everything can change anytime, with or without any reason. Have your own pride and self-respect, we always deserve more than what we can possibly think of.
 
This look carries a lot of apparels from Local Brands in my country! :)
*Thank you Red Cherry for the perfect gift when I need it the most - a dark denim jeans! Follow their twitter (@shop_redcherry) and like their Facebook page here.
*Unwrapped my early Christmas gift from Cloth Inc, an ultimately chic white shirt!
*So much in love with the gift from Aero Maquirette! DSC_5394 DSC_5430 DSC_5405 DSC_5429Thank you so much Aero Maquirette <3DSC_5406 DSC_5390
Boy London cap, Chapter IV c/o The Goods Dept jacket, Cloth Inc shirt, Red Cherry jeans, Aero Maquirette ring, Topshop necklace, Supra shoes

117 comments:

Janina said...

Lovely outfit; so unique and stylish!! <3

And I totally understand the point of your story and how annoying that is..

Morgane le Fay said...

Like that outfit, different from other blogs!
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Rebeca Muñoz López said...

You rocks Mitha!!

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THE DAILY FASHION DRUG said...

Amazing outfit! I really love your style :-)


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beAllTheRage said...

so cool!

Sekar Atmahayu said...

ur cap really cool. love it!
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maggie said...

Love your outfit!! <3 Especially the hat~~

Ahh that sounds so irritating! Especially because they aren't dating, it seems like she is so desperate :(

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Julie (Little Pink Rain Boots) said...

I like your style and your blog. I really adore the necklaces your wearing too.

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Fabulous Petite said...

Hi Mitha. I love this look on you, look so cool ! Thank you for visiting my blog and for the sweet thoughts.

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Adam said...

that's one cool ring

Aiiness said...

cincinnya ♥ envy deh! :p

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kristina teo said...

love your outfit :)

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Forever Fashion said...

Awesome look!

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Rosalinda Tjioe said...

Oi ketjeeee <3 Love the cap and jacket! Akhirnya pake clana panjang! xx

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vale.larmadiodivenere said...

I love shoes!
Good outfit and good words!

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Merlyn Macella Widjaja said...

love your outfit

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Maria Widjaja said...

oh myyy!! head over heels in love with your shoes & cap:)

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WeRaa . said...

The second pic is adorable!
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Kathy Noto said...

I loove your shoes! And the whole look in general. <3

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Amanda said...

hehe, totally understand what you are coming from, people should know that there is always limits that you shouldn't cross =)

letiziabarcelona said...

hey! Love the BOY cap!
so cool!


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C. Belvin said...

nice jacket <33

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Jul, Life Is A Romantic Poem said...

Oh gosh, that girl doesn't only have such a low self-esteem, she seems a little crazy too! Calling her crush "dear"...bah.
Anyways I love this outfit, so fresh and sporty! And that ring, oh my, I just LOVE it.
Life is a romantic poem

Ivana Džidić said...

nice outfit, I like the cap

RNRFairytale said...

i love this otfit! u look great

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Fictitious Fashion said...

you are absolutely right.. n its nt only abt nt being in a rlp.. dey display der love so much that the other person pukes. u have phone.. u can meet..y do u wanna do PDA on facebook? hahah

i love ur outfit.. gorgeous for a BOY :P

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Alita Claudia said...

First time seeing you in a boyish outfit! You look great! :D

Tara said...

i want that jacket and Boy London cap !!! :)

Fashionthrougthravel said...

Love your powerful look!
You're so right about the self respect part, I also happen to see that kind of behavior and it's not pretty...

Miss Aa said...

nice jacket, and love your cap too :)

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Milex said...

Love, I would totally wear it myself.

Samra Seljpic said...

Great outfit..So stylish and beautiful <3

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the clothes paper said...

wahou really love your ring!

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JULIETTE said...

This look is pretty cool, love that jacket!

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Theresa said...

Cute look! (:

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windiland said...

haha thats so true. anyway,i adore your jacket so much. and your boyish look totally cool!

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Nathalie Kartika Putri said...

Lovely jacket and ring mit!

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Novarinna Tan said...

Really love jacket and your boy cap <3

BananaModa said...

unique style! Love them shoes!

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The Fashion Cupcakes by Nevena Banic said...

This is amazing

sabrina maida said...

Never bored to blogwalking here !!! Makin kece sekayi anak ini ;;) i want your hat btw .hihi

Inès said...

love your look!! your sneakers are just great!
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Look of Style said...

great outfit:)

raqueleita said...

Nice outfit!! Kisses

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morganvsmorgan said...

I love the hat & the shoes,they look cute. & i agree, that kind of behaviour from a girl or boy is a bit grosss...and definitely a bit of a turnoff.

Caro * said...

Great style !! I love your shoes :)

Ninon said...

Incredible look! Your style is impressiv. :)

I know such girls, too - and I don't understand how they can bear themselves! I mean: Seriously, when I guy would go after me that way, I'd run. Fast. And far away.
More: Their entire self-image depends on if someone else like them, their own opinion about themselves doesn't count for anything, it seems to me. Otherwise, they'd keep their diginity. :/

Monja said...

yayyy GREAT! xo

Bel said...

Thanks for your nice comment!
I love your style! You look awesome!
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Ana Prieto said...

today, this will be my motto "we always deserve more than what we can possibly think of". Great look!

x Ana

dunia kecil indi said...

hahaha, mitha, sebenernya itu tentang kemampuan untuk menahan diri sendiri, kan? sebelum punya status sudah umbar2 kata sayang mungkin kedengerannya silly. tapi coba bayangkan kalau yg gak bisa ditahan adalah lust? mengerikan ya kalau banyak dari "mereka" yang have sex before marriage cuma gara2 nggak menahan diri :) seperti biasa, aku suka outfit kamu, you look boyish but pretty. sepatu kamu juaranya, deh! ;)

thepinkmateproject said...

great post dear! i like the message!

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Jenny said...

I really like this <3
amazing outfit & pictures!


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Lulut Marganingtyas said...

you look so different. love this look. I wanna steal your super cool jackeeeeeet. well done darling :)

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Anouka said...

Fabulous outfit! Love the trainers.

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Allie Emme said...

Cute look, you really pull that look off well! Thanks for checking out my blog :)
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ylenia said...

Great look the ring is so cool!
Thanks for the sweet comment =)
XOXO
Ylenia

stylemoca said...

Perfect :)

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Algo Para Ponerme said...

Hi pretty! I really like the outfit!
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Rebecca said...

I LOVE this outfit. Seriously. Can you just ship it right to me for me to wear?

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Totally amazing outfit. Would wear it all.

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Chris Ed said...

Hi dear, you look amazing, super cool outfit! I love your jacket! kisses chris

Ollyvia Laura Arnold said...

nice style. you rock and chic :)

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Rakel said...

Love your outfit!

tears apart said...

understand too...
love how this boystyle suits you
P.

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TRENDSURVIVOR said...

Cute athletic look! Love that you are wearing a shirt! Thank you for your lovely comment.
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Mei めい said...

wohoo always love boyish outfit :))

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Luxielle said...

Love the London Boy cap! I haven't got yet but I really wanna have one:)

Dianna (Stories After Twelve) said...

That's such a bad-ass style. Love it! :D

Joyce said...

I agree. I think it's important to not "lose yourself" in a relationship..even more so, before you're in any type of relationship. Cool outfit as usual mitha <3

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Karolina Chudek said...

love your style!<3

Lorena said...

Your ring is fabulous !
and I hate it when women are sooo gooey.

True said...

SWAG!

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Peet said...

I agree, self-respect is very important. But one also has to know when to swallow his or her pride.;) You look great, loving the sneakers!

Nici said...

You look great, love your jacket!

Sasha said...

Such an awesome look - so street :)
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María León. said...

amazing outfit! Kisses

Caroline Susanto said...

Really love your boyish outfits ^^

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Love your outfit!


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Cool look ! LOVE your new ring !!

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Marilyns Closet said...

Love the look and love the style! very original and so unique!! congrats!! i loved it!
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thanks for your comment baby
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ELISA said...

You rock babe!


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BostonPrincess said...

That ring is awesome!

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Joel Moore said...

I love your style! I've been meaning to get one of those "boy" hats!
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Rusia ♥ said...

cute ♥

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Gorgeous :)
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Time of style said...

Love your jacket!! amazing look pretty :)

merry christmas!

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Lisa - respect the shoes said...

I love your bangs and that gold name ring - have a good holidays!

Miu said...

I think showing too much affection (especially in public) is not good even when you are in a relationship. Some things should happen in private.

Tamara Emilia said...

everyday you look more stylish mitha :)
you are so inspire me <3

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PAPS said...

Love the sporty look. Also the ring with your name.
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Michaela said...

love the shoes!

Confessions of A Confused City Girl said...

Dope look! That hate is bomb

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Wynne Prasetyo said...

that jacket is supremely cool Mitha!





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Jodie said...

oh my god i have some1 on my timeline like that as well- and her partner is the same. They moved in and got engaged in 3 months- everytime i see there vomit enducing comments/status/photos i pray they break up so the world doesnt have to be forced to see this anymore (plus the fact they she treats him like a bank and he treats her like a play thing)
but on a positive note i love your look. very casual but beautiful
x

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ohh a look perfect!

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Very interesting blog, I like your outfit. Stylish!

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Lily said...

You look so confident and cool!

Diane said...

I love your look casual and so fresh to go to school!
Love your long dark hair too!
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Love the white shirt!
Such an amazing outfit!
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